Thoughts on a Year of Travel

It has been almost a year since we sold our house, car, and most of our stuff and took flight for Europe. It’s been almost a year of fulltime travel through Italy, Croatia, Germany, Slovenia, England, Scotland, France, Montenegro (plus a little Bosnia and Serbia), Austria, Sweden, and Ireland (plus a bit of Northern Ireland).

In less than two weeks we will be back in Montana trying to transition into another life that isn’t quite the same as the one we left, but is totally different than the one we are living now. I am feeling very bittersweet about it all.

Of course, I can’t wait to see friends and family. I am thrilled with the prospect of getting into the mountains and some real wilderness. I look forward to seeing the kids take classes, play sports, and reconnect with their buddies. But I am going to miss this travel lifestyle, meeting new friends, exploring new places, and learning more about the world.

I think it’s natural to start taking stock of this year abroad as it comes to an end. I asked my family the questions that everyone asks us, figuring you might want to know, too.

Finn (9-years-old)

What was your favorite country and why?

Scotland because it was easy to get around since they speak English, we could meet people, our apartment was nice, and the town (Callender) was amazing.

What was your favorite activity?

Hiking the Cliffs of Moher in Ireland. It was breathtaking and I played good games with my brother.

Is there a place you wished we visited on this trip but didn’t get to?

Not really.

What was different than your expectations about this trip?

I thought it would be a lot of doing stuff and it is, but then there are countries where we do nothing or work. In Italy we did something every day, but in Croatia we didn’t do much.

What do you do during the slow times?

Read, play with my toys, be bored, play on the iPad, jump on the trampoline (Ireland).

What was your favorite new food? Least favorite?

Fave: Sticky toffee pudding (UK). No go: Cream Tea (England).

How did you celebrate your birthday (August/Sweden)?

Homemade Swedish pancakes with blueberry sauce made from locally picked blueberries, laser tag, went out for dinner.

Anders (10 years old)

What was your favorite country and why?

Scotland. I liked the culture, the language, and the history. Edinburgh was nice, friendly, and pretty. Scotland also felt kind of wild. Ljubljana, Slovenia came in a close second.

What was your favorite activity?

The Dynamic Earth museum in Edinburgh or our long hike in Austria.

Is there a place you wished we visited on this trip but didn’t get to?

Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Denmark, Netherlands, Belgium, Hungary, Switzerland…(he kept going, but I cut him off – M).

What was different than your expectations about this trip?

I didn’t have expectations, but every time we get to a new apartment it looked different than I expected.

What do you do during the slow times?

Browse the Web, play with Finn, make maps.

What was your favorite new food? Least favorite?

Fave: Escargot (France). No go: Surströmming, but it was fun how bad it was (Sweden)

How did you celebrate your birthday (January/Slovenia)?

Getting out of an escape room, fancy cake.

Henry

What was your favorite country and why?

Scotland because of the history and relative wildness of it, the bareness of the Highlands, the culture was pretty cool, enjoyed live music and the friendliness of the people.

What was your favorite activity?

Visiting the Vasa Museum in Stockholm.

Is there a place you wished we visited on this trip but didn’t get to?

So many places, but…Romania

What was different than your expectations about this trip?

It was less like a vacation. I knew that going in, but still had expectations in my head. There are a lot of logistics—from how to get around to how to shop for groceries—and a lot of day-to-day working on projects.

What do you do during the slow times?

Work, read, watch Netflix.

What was your favorite new food? Least favorite?

Fave: Pork knuckles (Germany) No go: Krapfen (Austria/Germany)

How did you celebrate your birthday (March/Scotland)?

Surprise road trip through the highlands and two whiskey distillery tours/tastings.

Melynda

What was your favorite country and why?

Germany. I love the Bavarian architecture and aesthetic and there are so many trails/paths and easy access to big, craggy mountains. And though I don’t speak more than a few words, I think German is a fun language.

What was your favorite activity?

Hiking. And meeting people. We met a lot of great people this year, and I hope, many of them are friends for life.

Is there a place you wished we visited on this trip but didn’t get to?

Like the rest of the family, I have a long list of places I’d like to visit, but the Faroe Islands tops the list.

What was different than your expectations about this trip?

I wasn’t expecting how tiring the constant logistics of planning where to go, what to do, how to get there…would be.

What do you do during the slow times?

Work, watch Netflix, read, puzzle, walk, play Gardenscapes.

What was your favorite new food? Least favorite?

Fave: Cream Tea (UK). No go: Irn-Bru, the national soda (Scotland)

How did you celebrate your birthday (December/Germany)?

Hiking to an ice cave in Berchtesgaden National Park.

What’s Next?

We don’t know exactly what our future looks like. Who does? We have housing in Montana through the middle of January, possibly longer. We definitely want to continue to travel, but maybe not for such long chunks. In my dream world, I see us having our home base in Montana and frequently traveling, maybe in one- to three-month stints.

Maybe we buy an RV and travel around the U.S. and Canada. That was the plan several years ago. Maybe Anders and I hike the Pacific Crest Trail–a dream I have had for twenty plus years. Maybe….???

After spending a month in each country we visited and still not feeling like we had enough time in any one place, I can’t imagine taking a one or two week trip somewhere. Especially, if it involves a long flight. But maybe that’s what the future holds.

I don’t know what’s next, but as soon as I do, you’ll be the first to know.

If you have other questions, leave them in the comments and we can do another Q&A!